Blatantly put, anal sex is penetration of the anus for sexual pleasure. When one first passes the thought through their psyche the first thought is penetration of a penis into the anal cavity. Anal stimulation, done correctly and painlessly, is another plateau of sexual expression and pleasure.
When it is performed by a man, usually it is performed in stages with the ultimate experience being penis injection into the anus of his partner. Anal sex performed by a woman on a man is insertion of specifically designed “toys” or finger into the anal cavity. There is a protocol to follow that assures it a pleasurable and pain free experience.
It is mutual between partners beforehand on the decision to engage in anal sex as well as choosing a word to signal the presence of any discomfort.
Things you need to know about anal sex
The tissue lining of the anus is thin and covers a high density of small capillaries and an abundance of nerve endings. The anus also contains much bacteria laden residue from the body’s Prostate Protocol refuse. Anal secretions should not be mixed with vaginal or oral secretions, ever!
Thorough cleaning of body parts and toys that came in contact with the anus/rectum is necessary to prevent bacterial infection. One of these infections from anal secretion is Methicillin Staphylococcus Aureus, an antibiotic resistant bacterium more widely known as MRSA.
The anal canal is about two inches long and has two circular muscles that constrict and expand to support the natural function of feces or flatulence expulsion or retention. The anus muscles (anal sphincters) must be in a relaxed state to avoid painful anal sex. On a man, know that the prostate gland lies between the rectum cavity and other reproductive organs which make it an area of sensitive sensation. For women, the anus is only separated from pleasure zones by the thin membrane of the anus.
How to perform pain free anal sex
Anal sex articulated with patience and concise protocol can be very pleasurably rewarding for both man and woman.
Extensive foreplay stimulation should be the precursor to pain free anal sex. The anal muscles must be in a relaxed state and excessively lubricated before penetration. Penetration starts with a graduation of circumference and length from narrow to penis accommodation or “butt plug”. Gentleness is necessary, keeping mindfully aware of wall thinness of anus and rectum.
Pain free anal sex protocol
- Foreplay, Foreplay!
- Lubricate excessively and often.
- Start with a narrow, ¼ to ½ inch circumference “toy” and graduate slowly.
- Keep anal muscles relaxed. (for a woman this could mean prior orgasm or oral stimulation to release endorphins.)
- If penis injection is the goal, be sure to graduate slowly to the size of a full erection. Note: Be absolutely sure not to cross anal bacteria with vaginal or oral membranes. Clean “toys,” hands and anal area well after sex.